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Pastor Idowu Okeze, A Philanthropist With A Heart Of Gold

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

Pastor Idowu Okeze

To have and give, expecting nothing in return is a rare trait possessed by very few men. Few men who are compassionate and godly, becomes rare and is termed “philanthropy extraordinaire,” especially in Nigeria.

Pastor Idowu Okeze has provided his people from Igbuzo in Oshimili North Local Government of Delta State with several essential amenities such as water, Transformers, Solar light and roads lacking in particular areas in his community, which he found in his heart to ease the problems of his people by taking the bull by the horn.

Silently and diligently, with passion, he started realizing and fulfilling his dream for his people in earnest. He achieved all this without publicity and social media engagements.

Okeze, a silent achiever, organized and coordinated a group of his people especially the peasant farmers to give them all farming implements to ease their farming season.

He single-handedly sponsored the drilling of boreholes at various locations in Igbuzo-Oshimili North local government areas and went further to resuscitated some damage roads in the area.

His benevolence didn’t stop there. Knowing the benefits of education, as an Educated person, he came up with an idealogy that no child in Igbuzo should be left behind in terms of basic education. He solely embarked on awards of various scholarships to students in primary, secondary, and tertiary institutions.

His kind-hearted nature never ignores the less privileged. With his belief that no one from Igbuzo and Oshimili North should go to bed hungry, with dignity, he provided seasonal palliatives of all kinds, distributing food items.

Pastor Idowu Okeze also pays hospital bills for individuals,establishes businesses and sponsors people in various vocational training like plumbing, hairdressing, tailoring, motor parts dealership, solar panels and CCTV installation. Most of the beneficiaries are Youths,widows and orphans.He also empowered both Igbuzo and non-indigenes with over one thousand tricycles (KEKE) for commercial use.

Pastor Idowu Okeze sponsored the enrollment of 1000 indigent and vulnerable Ibusa indigenes into the informal sector category of the Health scheme of Delta State Contributory Health Commission insurance premium by paying #7000 (Seven Thousand Naira Only) per person and the One thousand persons in Ibusa were given access health care card for one full year, free of charge. This is the first of its kind where indigent enrollees who are vulnerable are adopted by a philanthropist with passion to save life.

His genuine love and affection for his people wasn’t unnoticed. The people from the community, Igbuzo are calling on the traditional ruler to bestow on Him chieftaincy titles, inorder to encourage him to do more for the needies and less privilege ones.

Pastor Idowu Okeze is popularly called by the name “Upkechukwu Ibusa”,is testimonial, and a clear proof of the true nature of this glorious gentleman who is so handsome both in the flesh and in his heart.

You have many fantastic qualities but among the top of them have to be that you are dependable,trustworthy and you are always there for the Igbuzo Youths,widows and orphans.
You are truly inspirational figure! I just wanted you to know on how much you are admired and respected by your people!
You have certainly earned your place in history! “Upkechukwu Ibusa”, A great son of Igbuzo.

Alaska Ekele emerges new South South Writers Forum

By: Newsbreeze
Writers in South South under the aegis of South South Writers Forum, SOSOWFO had the maiden edition of her International Convention. The event held between March 13, 2025 which was arrival day and spanned till March 16, 2025 which was departure day. The event held at Loccocoon Hotels Ltd. Kwale.
The Theme of the convention was “Building the Creative Economy of the South South Region of Nigeria: The Role of Writers” with Dr Peter Omoko as the Keynote Speaker.
During the period of the convention they had election to usher in National Executive Committee that would run the affairs of the body in the next four years; had the maiden Annual General Meeting, AGM, went on tour to Ogume Grammar School, Ogume, Umukwata Kingdom where they were amazed at the giant strides of HRM Friday Abaja and also visited the source of River Ethiope at Umuaja. It was a richly packaged convention.
At Ogume Grammar School, they sensitized the students about the forum and enjoined them to take their books seriously, stressing that they were there at the instance of Uncle Alaska Ekele an eminent Old Boy of the school. They informed the students that they would be organizing healthy academic competitions among schools in the Geo-political zone. Before leaving, they promised donating some of their books to the school through Alaska Ekele.
During election which held on Saturday, March 15, 2025 candidates were screened thoroughly and were given ten minutes each to present their manifestos by the Dr BC Anyanwu led Electoral Committee. At the end of the exercise candidates for the offices of Assistant General Secretary and Treasurer were screened out as they could not give account of themselves. Those that passed the litmus test and elected were
Uncle Alaska Ekele – President
Mrs Joy Esuku – Vice President
Prof Ofonime Inyang – General Secretary
Chief Nelson Ulie – Financial Secretary
Dr Rita Inoma-Abbey – Legal Adviser and
Mrs Esther Dominic Nwabuisi – Publicity Secretary.
As for the vacant offices, members were asked to aspire as bye-election would be conducted in due course. The winners were issued Certificate of Return by Dr BC Anyanwu and were inaugurated by Barrister Donatus Chukwuma.
In his acceptance speech on behalf of other elected national officers Uncle Alaska Ekele thanked members for finding him worthy of leading them and also thanked the Electoral Committee for professional, successful and peaceful conduct of the election. He said with the new crop of national officers, the forum would surely get to greater heights. As a new beginning he has collapsed all the existing state chapters and charged all members to plot a graph that would usher in new committees at the state levels to be inaugurated by the National Executive Committee in due course. He enjoined members to go for membership drive.
Far reaching decisions were taken during the AGM. Notable was to honour HRM Friday Abaja the Ukwata 1 of Umukwata Kingdom with a Prestigious award for transforming his community and for touching lives. As a mark of honour to the first National President, Uncle Alaska Ekele, it was agreed that headquarters of South South Writers Forum, SOSOWFO to be established in Ndokwa land. Uncle Ekele according to the forum has done creditably well that without him the group may have collapsed and may not have been registered with Corporate Affairs Commission, CAC. Students across board were given waivers for free membership.
The group would be making policy statements through press releases, come up with a communique and to act as a watchdog to the region. It was indeed a successful convention with Akwa Ibom state given the hosting right for next the 2026 convention.

PROMOTING DELTA PRIMARY SCHOOL GRADUATE TEACHERS: A MATTER OF EQUALITY, FAIRNESS*

 As we continue to grapple with the challenges within our education system, it is imperative that we recognise the invaluable role played by our primary school teachers.
These dedicated professionals lay the foundation for lifelong learning, equipping our children with the essential skills and knowledge needed for success.
However, despite their crucial contributions, primary school graduate teachers have been unjustly denied promotion to Level 17. This glaring inequity demands urgent redress.
The argument that primary school teachers should not be promoted to Level 17 simply because they teach at the primary level is fundamentally flawed.
All university degrees hold equal merit, and primary school teachers who possess degrees should be granted the same opportunities for career progression as their counterparts in secondary schools.
Furthermore, other states such as Edo and Anambra have already taken steps to upgrade primary school degree teachers to Level 17.
This precedent raises serious questions about fairness and equality. If other states can acknowledge and reward the contributions of primary school teachers, why should we lag behind?
A staunch advocate for primary school teachers, Comr. Titus Okotie has presented a compelling case for their promotion.
“Equality and fairness demand that we recognise the value of primary school teachers,” he asserted.
“The foundation of education is laid at the primary level, where teachers impart the basic skills and knowledge our children need to thrive.”
The Delta State Deputy Governor, Sir Monday Onyeme, while representing Governor Sherrif Oborevwori on World Teachers’ Day in October 2024, expressed support for the promotion of primary school graduate teachers.
He assured that the matter would be presented to the Executive Council (EXCO) for consideration.
We commend Governor Oborevwori for approving the promotion of 262 secondary school teachers to Level 17 through the Post Primary Education Board (PPEB).
However, we urge him not to overlook the equally deserving primary school teachers. Whether in primary or secondary schools, these educators are integral to our children’s development and play a critical role in shaping their futures.
They also exercise their voting rights during elections, contributing to the leadership that governs our state. It is only just that their dedication and service be recognised and rewarded on equal terms.
It is important to note that the minimum entry qualification for primary school teachers has evolved over the years.
Previously, it was the Teachers’ Certificate II (TC II), later upgraded to the Nigeria Certificate in Education (NCE). The benchmark for promotion was once Level 14, but with degree holders now teaching at the primary level, it is only logical that they be accorded the same recognition and career progression as their secondary school counterparts.
Aligning these standards will strengthen the primary education sector and enhance its appeal to aspiring teachers.
In an ever-evolving world, education must also adapt to remain relevant. Our education system should be dynamic, inclusive, and responsive to change.
Promoting primary school graduate teachers to Level 17 is a progressive step that acknowledges their indispensable role in shaping the future of our children.
While we appreciate Governor Oborevwori’s commitment to promoting secondary school teachers, we urge him to extend the same recognition to primary school teachers.
Doing so would reaffirm his dedication to education and the welfare of all teachers in the state.
Recognising and promoting primary school teachers to Level 17 is not merely a matter of equality and fairness; it is a crucial step towards strengthening our education system.
We call upon the state government to revisit this pressing issue and grant primary school graduate teachers the promotion they rightfully deserve.
Governor Oborevwori should take decisive action to correct this injustice and ensure that primary school teachers receive the recognition and career progression they have long been denied.
 *Comrade Osita Biose is a concerned citizen and advocate for education reform.*

Real Estate sector are facing severe turbulence over the past years due to rising inflation – Otoma

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

Stanley Chukwudumebi Otoma
CEO, One Needs Properties Ltd.

Nigerian real estate market has faced severe turbulence over the past five years due to rising inflation, currency devaluation, and economic instability. Once a thriving industry for developers and investors, the sector has encountered significant challenges, pushing many builders into financial distress and forcing property buyers to reconsider their investments.

The real estate sector has also struggled with bureaucratic red tape, making land acquisition and project approvals difficult for investors. Additionally, inadequate road networks, inconsistent electricity supply, and inefficient urban planning have hindered the sector’s full potential. Rising insecurity and political uncertainty could further complicate investment decisions, potentially deterring foreign capital inflows.

In a chat with Newsbreeze, Stanley Chukwudumebi Otoma , the founding Chairman, One Need Properties Ltd, the trail-blazing Real Estate mogul par excellence and a respected voice in the real estate sector, shared insights into the key factors shaping the industry. He examined economic conditions, regulatory reforms, technological advancements, and infrastructure expansion, offering strategic advice to investors and developers seeking to navigate the evolving landscape.

According to Otoma, several elements will influence Nigeria’s real estate market in 2025. Economic stability and government policies will play a central role in determining investment confidence, while urbanisation and population growth will continue to fuel demand for housing, particularly in the affordable segment.

He said Inflation has soared from 11.25% in 2019 to over 28% in 2024, with construction inflation exceeding 300%. The devaluation of the naira—falling from ₦360/$1 in 2019 to nearly ₦1,500/$1 in 2024—has further compounded the crisis. Developers who relied on imported building materials now struggle with rising costs, making it difficult to complete projects on time and within budget.

The Asaba-based developer,described the struggle: “A project we planned at ₦250 million in 2023 now requires over ₦600 million to complete. Many developers are stuck between defaulting on delivery or absorbing losses that could collapse their businesses.

Otoma said that as inflation continues to rise, many buyers who initially invested in properties under construction are experiencing prolonged delays or requesting refunds. Developers unable to complete projects on time are forced to renegotiate terms or offer alternative financial arrangements. In Asaba and Abuja, a survey of major developers reveals that nearly 63% of construction projects initiated between 2019 and 2023 remain incomplete, with several abandoned altogether.

Despite the downturn, he believe that innovative solutions can help the real estate market stabilize. Some developers are exploring index-linked pricing models, where costs adjust with inflation, while others are shifting toward locally sourced building materials to reduce reliance on imports.

Otoma believes government intervention is crucial: “Without policy support—such as lower interest rates for real estate financing or incentives for local material production—the sector will continue to struggle. Developers need relief to complete ongoing projects and restore confidence in Nigeria’s property market.”

The Nigerian real estate sector, once a beacon of investment security, now faces its toughest period in recent history. Inflation, economic instability, and a declining naira have made property development a high-risk venture for both developers and homebuyers. While some companies are adapting to the challenges, the future of real estate investment in Nigeria will depend largely on economic recovery, financial innovation, and stronger regulatory frameworks.

For now, developers are bracing for what could be another challenging five years—unless drastic changes occur to stabilize the industry.

Happy birthday to International Sports Icon of our time

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

Dr Freddie Henry- Ajudua

Today, we celebrate not just your birth, but also your incredible contributions to the sports landscape of our great nation (Nigeria) and the world . Your unwavering dedication and commitment to mankind,make you an inspiration to young people in sports world. Your leadership skills and visionary mindset have paved the way for aspiring leaders, showing them that with determination and hard work, anything is possible.

Dr Freddie Chukwuyem Henry-Ajudua,you have been a pillar of support for countless individuals who aspire to make a difference in our society. Your guidance and mentorship have empowered young leaders to step forward and take charge. Your ability to connect with people from all walks of life, regardless of their background or affiliations, is truly remarkable. Your inclusive approach to Sports has brought about positive change and unity within Sports world. Dr Ajudua is one of those very few good men; a true philanthropist, an accomplished Sports Icon, a Medical Doctor, a perfect gentleman, a man of valour, the bringer of rain. In the gallery of great leaders and great men, he is without doubt, a rare masterpiece.

Dr Ajudua is still celebrating his birthday to put the epochal celebration in proper perspective, he has joined the club at the exciting peak and the proper prime of his mercurial powers where, poised like the bronzed champion, glowing flamboyantly in the golden flame of his prime, prepares himself to capture and conquer arguably, the one ultimate laurel for which his superlative gifts and brilliance clamour to be manifestly celebrated with maximum political aplomb woven into the matrix of an intrepid homogeneous ubiquity.

When great men celebrate, even the stars bow in solemn hallow. As Nigerian- American International Rugby Star Dr. Freddie Henry-Ajudua, Rugby Sports Icon who represented Nigeria at the Rugby World Cup recently is a man of immense mettle and a completely detribalized human being with a profound depth of character, whose humility, devoid of discrimination, embraces all and sundry, he soars like an eagle and exudes reverence and integrity. A pragmatic leader full of benevolence, he gives hope to the hopeless, Job to the jobless and welfare and succor to the poor and needy. To everyone who crosses his path, he is light. He is a friend to all, a role model to the young, a helper to many and a visionary man bubbling with the ideals of entrenching a united, peaceful, harmonious vision for his community and the world. Honest, transparent, dependable, uncomplicated and full of wisdom,Dr Ajudua can change you effortlessly, with his word.

Describing Freddie Ajudua as a child of circumstances with a great destiny is like stating the obvious. It is often said that some were born great, while others attained or achieved greatness. For Ajudua, it is a combination of being born great and working hard to attain greatness.

Dr Freddie Ajudua has packed in that relatively age, a record of achievements that is the envy of his peers. He is born to the great Ajudua dynasty of Obi( Dr) Henry Chukwuma Ajudua and Obi (Mrs) Vivian Ajudua  from Ibusa in Oshimili North Local Government Area of Delta State, his parents, may not have imagined the great heights their then little child was destined for. But as the legendary Professor Chinua Achebe would say, a chick that will grow to be a cock is known the day it was hatched.

Indeed the birthday celebration of this Nigerian- American International Rugby Star Icon of our time had been useful and resourceful for his service to humanity. Therefore today let me on behalf of my beloved Ibusa kingdom in Oshimili North Local government Area of Delta State celebrate our iconoclastic Dr Freddie Chukwuyem Henry- Ajudua and thank Almighty God for adding another year to his life and to pray that God continues to bless him with robust health, protection, and enduring provision. Your reign shall bring prosperity and peace to Ibusa, Oshimili North, Delta State and Nigeria in general.

Brother, though even the sun will one day run out of fuel, our love for you shall last forever. we thank God each and every day for giving us a brother and Sports Icon like you. On your birthday, we want to thank you for being the best brother anyone could ever hope for. You are such a great role model for every brother in the world because you are so loving, caring, protective, and supportive.

Your legendary generosity and willingness to do good at all times is documented in the hearts of millions. That is why on your birthday, You deserves a toast and song, “Happy birthday to you…” Above all, You deserves a prayer from everyone who is on the side of truth in the eternal battle between truth and falsehood. Big Happy Birthday …

Asagba of Asaba hails Tinubu on Asaba-Benin Expressway, Niger Bridge …

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

The Asagba of Asaba, His Royal Majesty, Asagba Prof Epiphany Azinge, SAN, OON, has commended President Bola Tinubu over the commencement of the second Niger Bridge access road and the reconstruction of the Asaba-Benin Expressway.

FG Flags Off Access Road to Second Niger Bridge (Phase 2A), Reinforces Commitment to Infrastructure Development

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

4th right, the representative of the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the governor of Delta State Hon. Sheriff Francis, middle, the Hon. Minister of Works Engr. Nweze David, 3rd right, the Permanent Secretary Federal Ministry of Works, Engr. Olufunso Olusesan Adebiyi and others in a group picture during the official flag-off of the access road to 2nd Niger Bridge connecting Delta State and Anambra State. Date: 24th March, 2025

The Federal Government through the Federal Ministry of Works has officially flagged off the Construction of a 17.55-Kilometre Access Road to the Second Niger Bridge (Phase 2A) in Asaba, linking the South South Zone to the South East. This milestone event underscores the administration’s unwavering dedication to enhancing national road infrastructure and fostering economic growth.

Speaking at the ceremony, the Honourable Minister of Works Engr (Sen) David Umahi CON, FNSE, FNATE lauded the host State Government for its commitment to infrastructure development, emphasising that governance is about improving the lives of the people. He commended the Edo State Governor’s proactive approach to addressing road infrastructure needs, acknowledging the numerous ongoing projects, including three major flyovers in Warri town. “Your state is a construction site. You have demonstrated that leadership is about responsibility, not excuses. Instead of blaming the Federal government, you are taking proactive actions. That is highly commendable,” he stated.

Engr. Umahi further highlighted the Federal Government’s broader vision for road infrastructure, revealing that multiple strategic road projects are either ongoing or in the pipeline, nationwide. These include the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, the Benin-Asaba Expressway, the Sokoto-Gusau-Katsina-Kaduna corridor, the East-West Road, the remaining section of Abuja-Kaduna-Zaria-Kano Dual Carriageway, amongst others. He assured that the 9-kilometre extension of the just-flagged off Reconstruction of the Benin-Asaba Expressway to the 2nd Niger Bridge requested by the State Government has been approved.

To ensure the security and sustainability of the newly constructed roads and bridges, the Government has implemented advanced surveillance measures, including the installation of CCTV cameras along the Access Roads and the Bridge. These cameras will be linked to the offices of the Governors of the concerned States to monitor activities and prevent vandalism. Additionally, the project will incorporate solar-powered streetlights to enhance visibility and security.

The Minister reiterated the administration’s commitment to prioritising inherited projects and delivering impactful infrastructure to Nigerians. He emphasised that under President Tinubu’s Renewed Hope Agenda, road projects nationwide are receiving unprecedented attention, ensuring seamless connectivity and economic progress.

“All major road projects inherited by Mr. President are ongoing. He has given them priority attention. This administration believes in continuity and results, not political excuses,” he stressed.
The project, he continued, is part of a broader national infrastructure strategy aimed at connecting key economic zones and improving transportation efficiency. The government has assured that funding is secured, with 30% of the contract sum ready to be paid, while strict timelines and performance monitoring will be enforced to ensure timely delivery.

The Delta State Governor, Rt Hon Sheriff Francis Oborevwori, while acknowledging the presence of dignitaries at the occasion, stated “It is an honor and privilege to stand before you today, representing His Excellency, Senator Bola Ahmed Tinubu, GCFR the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. This occasion is not just about flagging off a road project—it is a testament to this administration’s unwavering commitment to economic development, national integration, and infrastructure renewal.

“The construction of the Access Road is a major step towards strengthening our nation’s connectivity. This road will ease movement, facilitate trade, and enhance economic opportunities for the people of Delta, Anambra, and beyond. It is yet another proof that under this administration, infrastructure development remains a top priority for fostering economic growth and national unity. I want to, especially, commend the government and people of Delta and Anambra States for their collaboration in ensuring the success of this project. Your support and cooperation are crucial in making this vision a reality. Infrastructure development is not just the responsibility of the Federal Government requires the collective effort of all stakeholders, including the State Governments, Local Communities, and Private Sector Partners,” says the President.

The Governor added “To our esteemed contractors, I urge you to ensure the highest standards of quality and timely completion of this project. This is not just a road; it is a legacy of progress that will serve generations to come.”

He extended his gratitude to all present-the traditional rulers, community leaders, and all who have contributed in one way or another to the realisation of the initiative. “Your support and dedication to the success of this project reflect our shared commitment to building a better, more connected Nigeria.

As we look forward to its completion, let us all continue to work together for the development of our great nation,” Governor Oborevwori concluded.

OBI AJUDUA LAMENTED OVER THE INCESSANT HARASSMENT AND EXTORTION FROM DEVELOPERS IN IGBUZO

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

It appears that the “Delta State Public and Private Properties Protection Bill 2018 has become “useless” or a “dead on arrival” state law.
The law tailored to outlaw illegal and forceful entry into development sites in the state popularly known as “deve” in local parlance has become “unenforceable” for reasons yet to be established.

Newsbreeze reports that a stakeholder and a true son of Igbuzo Obi(Dr)Henry Ajudua at the weekend expressed his concern over the functionality of the law in Igbuzo and it environs. The bill establishing the law was assented to by Governor Ifeanyi Okowa on 24th, August 2018 after year-long efforts to send it to the state assembly as Executive Bill after assumption of office in May 29, 2015.

The bill was given accelerated reading and passed for assent which was also done in record time.

Optimistic Okowa, probably thinking the bill would automatically put an end to the ugly era of extortion, molestation of properties developers in the state, is ‘dead wrong’  years plus after signing the bill into law as the menace remained unabated in the state.

Okowa was quoted to have said that the law will stop youths from trespassing into property development sites in the state and make investment to thrive.

According to the governor, harassment of property developers by touts in the name of “deve” had chased away a lot of developers from the state. He, however, was confident that with the signing into law of the bill prohibiting illegal and forceful entry into development sites, the state would witness speedy development.

But six years plus after this assertions from the governor and the law in place, the menace of ‘Deve” collecting, touts have continued in the state unabated mostly in Igbuzo,Nothing seemed to have changed.

Obi Dr Henry Ajudua,the President of Vebron Carre INC. USA on Friday, voiced his frustration that since the law came into existence no one has been arrested and prosecuted. According to him, this is not because the law has finally arrested the menace but because enforcement has become a big challenge to the law enforcement agencies.

He said, there is no record of criminal harassment of properties developers for the police to move in because, according to him people are not willing to report to the police.He however said that Igbuzo town is worst in terms of the social vices, he said that presently Vebron Carr USA is developing Multi-Million naira hospital in Igbuzo but the illegal extortion from State, local government agencies and various youths bodies is seriously hindering the project.

Obi Ajudua asserted that no investor will be willing to invest in Igbuzo and its environs because of the menace of government agencies and youths who on daily basis extort, and harass properties developers, particularly within the Igbuzo area.

He added that the law (Delta State Public and Private Properties Protection Law 2018) that ought to arrest the situation have not recorded any success as the state police command have not brought an offender to acknowledge many years plus after it was enacted.

“So the question is where is the future in Igbuzo? Every morning, youths wake up all over Oshimili North collecting one ‘deve’ or the other. “I want to appeal because there is break down of morality and respect. No society can grow if there is no sense of moral, discipline and respect”.

He dropped a subtle warning and threat, to cancel hospital work at Igbuzo following the menace of government agencies and youths’ harassment of project workers in the Vebron Carre site.

Specifically, the Vebron Carre, President while lamenting the menace of ‘deve’ collectors in Igbuzo, where one of his project is traversing, said several properties developers will leave Igbuzo town( Part of the Capital Territory) because of constant harassment by local youths.

His words, “I have warned them, if they don’t stop, we will pull out.Some Property Development Companies in Igbuzo are pulling out already. Imagine the number of people that they would have employed, contracts they would have given if those companies were still here.

Obi Ajudua outburst is coming despite the existence of “Delta State Public and Private Properties Protection Law 2018”. Findings indicate that since the law was put in place, Government agencies and  local youths still go about harassing and embarrassing developers in the state with a moribund law which ought to check their essences in place.

Obi Ajudua is calling on Delta State government to fully implement the Public and Private Properties Protection law also known as “Anti-Deve” law to pave way for accelerated development in the state.

Emeghara Family, others Mourn As Mrs Bibiana Chikanele Maduakolam laid to Rest

By: Ike Philip Abiagom

It was indeed a sad ceremony for the family of Emeghara and Maduakolam as they bury their mother and sister late Mrs Bibiana Chikanele Maduakolam,‎ known from her formative years as Mom BB, Mama Kelechi‎.

The burial ceremony attracted the high and mighty in the corridors state influence‎ and power. From the funeral service and interment held at Charismatic Renewal Ministry INC.( Glory Centre) Port Harcourt. Noble dignitaries, traditional rulers amongst others put up appearance to sympathise with the bereaved family.

66years Nne Emeghara, who died after a brief illness was more like an iroko of morals to the family and a mother hen to the brothers and siblings. Emeghara Okechukwu expressed pain and regrets over the sister death as he was seen dejectedly responding to brief interview with some reporters at grand burial ceremony.

In truth, Port Harcourt town experienced an unprecedented convergence of church members, mother’s, elders, youths and cross sections of Orlu . It was better described as a grand burial ceremony to a worthy icon, no wonder she was referred as Mom BB, from her growing up years. Adieu Mama, Rest in Peace. ‎

GOOD NIGHT, PHARM. BRIDGET OKOCHA

By : Ike Philip Abiagom

Late Pharm. Bridget Okocha

It is with a heavy and bleeding heart I pen this, can’t believe you’re gone, I always looked up to you as inspiration, and a pillar to your family…

There are simply no words to capture what you meant to my family or convey the full weight of our grief over your passing. When I met you over twenty three years ago I knew at once, that my brother (Peter Okocha) had struck gold and I know many men have a wonderful wives like you but no one will ever had a better one above you. For Pharm.(Mrs) Bridget Okocha you were simply amazing – beautiful, witty, highly intelligent, quirky and always immense fun to be with. I am grateful for every minute we had together in Lagos.

We shared family friendship, a bond that no one else can understand and together we tore down barriers of creed, tribe and culture that threatened to keep us apart and at once turned all of it into love and laughter and oneness. You always said family mattered most and you embraced ours so intimately that you easily passed for a wife and a big sister to my beloved wife (Isioma Abiagom). You were humble, faithful, efficient, and true and in your unassuming way, made everything around you beautiful.

As cliché as it may sound, Pharm. Bridget Okocha, you were everything. My brother (Peter Okocha) happiest years were those spent with you. You gave him the experience of being clearly understood, truly supported and completely and utterly loved. You inspired him in ways I cannot explain. You were his number one fan, blowing his trumpet the loudest. When he was worried, you said it would be ok. When he wasn’t sure what to do, you figured it out. When things were difficult you were a pillar.

I remembered how I always visit you at your Pharmaceutical store(Maybeck) at Randle Street, Surulere, spend hours with you and how you entertained me as your husband’s junior brother still reflects in my memory. I shall never forget your advice, the laughter, the promises and the plans. I miss your presence, your companionship and your encouragement.

You see, your love and caring to people around you is at once this cruel and uplifting. We are dead without it, and yet made so much more vulnerable to pain for experiencing it. However if the day me and my wife walked down that aisle with you someone had told us that this would happen, we would still have walked down that aisle. For the beautiful flowers you have planted in our memories’ will be treasured for the rest of our lifetime.

Aunty B, our love could not save you. we fought long and hard though. You did not want to die. we did not want to let go either. We were confident this would end in praise. But the creator thought your work here was done and decided to call you to Himself, to swell the number of the Saints triumphant. Camera 360

I am consoled however by the fact that we will bury only your body, but your spirit, your beautiful soul, your uncommon ability to calm the storm is still with us. You live on in the stories those who knew you are sharing of how you touched their lives, in the memories of our families who you touched most closely, in the love that is so visible in the eyes of our families. Things will never be the same for us yes, but we all have been made better because you were in our lives.

The words of Alan D. Wolfelt in The Wilderness of Grief, aptly captures my feelings on this day. “My grief journey has no destination. I will not ‘get over it.’ The understanding that I don’t have to be done is liberating. I will mourn this death for the rest of my life.” But I will not stay drained by grief. I assure you that my brother, your husband (Peter Okocha) will be strong for the children, and that together, we shall make you proud.

Thinking of Aunty Bridget automatically brings a smile to the lips of those who knew her because she loving and caring. She always had a smile.

Thank you, Aunty Bridget, for the great privilege of having known you for 23 years. I know you are still here among us. Thank you for reminding us that the present moment is precious, and that we should make the most of it by loving fully and generously.

Spread your wings and fly proudly, Aunty Bridget. You have earned it!

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